The Cambridge Mummy blog on: the rising cost of childcare

It’s no surprise really is it, that the rising cost of childcare is having a huge impact on families, working parents and how family life is working. I’m just about to go on the air with BBC Radio Cambridgeshire to talk about it, as it’s a huge issue for so many people that I know. The survey says that the soaring cost of childcare is pushing the poorest out of work and children into poverty. Research from Save the Children and the Daycare Trust has revealed families on low-incomes across the UK are having to turn down jobs or are considering leaving work because they can’t afford to pay for childcare, according to new . The survey also found that parents, regardless of income, say they can’t afford not to work, but struggle to pay for childcare. And despite many parents cutting back their spending, almost a quarter have got into debt because of childcare costs. Parents in Britain spend almost a third of their incomes on childcare – more than anywhere else in the world. Of those families in severe poverty, nearly half have cut back on food to afford childcare and 58% said they were or would be no better off working once childcare is paid for.

The cut to the working tax credit has also dealt a massive blow to hard working families struggling in severe poverty with four in ten of those affected considering giving up work because they will no longer earn enough to cover the childcare bill. The cut has added on average £500 per year onto the childcare bill for half a million families.

Now I’m not saying for a moment that our family is in poverty in any way shape or form. But the problem is clear when I list the maths around returning to my old job. I was on around £38,000 a year gross, as a full time salary. This translates to £28,500 a year after tax, when working 5 days a week. So if I’d gone back 3 days a week, as I’d planned to, I would have generated £17,100 ish of take home – net pay, per year.

Liz net earnings for 3 days a week = £17,100 ish, per year

Cost of private nursery for 3 days a week for 2 boys = £52 a day, per child. This is £16,244 per year.

Cost of petrol to get to work for 3 days a week, for a year = £1,560

Cost of sandwiches for 3 days a week, for a year = £312

This is a total of = £16,244 + £1,560 + £312 = £18,116

Liz earnings (£17,100) – Cost for Liz to go to work (£18,116) = Total cost to go to work for 3 days a week of £1,016

It just doesn’t add up, does it. Thankfully we are living a very different life to the one detailed above but so many people I know are relying on family members for childcare but I don’t think that’s fair either, as for a start, it would be my inlaws who did it as my parents are 3 hours away in the car and it’s not up to them to bail us out when they should be in their retirement having looked after other people for so many years themselves!

It’s nuts. I have no solution. I don’t know what the solution should be. I just think it’s rubbish that so many people are in this situation.

Shall I get off my soapbox now?

*Image courtesy of topnews.net.nz

Update at 6pm on Wednesday 7 September:

1. If you are someone who is trying to work out how you can contribute to your family’s finances but aren’t sure how to do it, check out www.businessandbabyshow.com which happens on Saturday 1 October and is a great way to find out about all the business opportunities available to you which will work with your family life.

2. There’s a good link on the Guardian, with an article on this very topic…

The Cambridge Mummy blog on: our wedding anniversary – a review…

Ha ha, I love the idea of “reviewing” my wedding anniversary. That’s comedy in itself. But anyway, I’ve had some tweets about it, so I figured it would be good to write about it and, I’ve actually got lots to photos to document it, which is nice…

Day started at 7am, which is a result in itself. I scurried into the other room with the boys and we wrote special cards for daddy to tell him how much we love him. They were given to him, along with my present – the piece de resistance – a packet of Super Hero Top Trumps. This is a top present in my mind and Lovely Bloke does his best to look pleased with it, as he always does, god love him.

Then he tells me to look inside the wardrobe for my small present. I’m there quickly and searching, searching, searching – I can’t find anything. He’s telling me to keep looking and lo and behold I find a small Mappin and Webb box. Wooooo hooooo!!!! In some ways, it could have been an empty bag. But I suppose it’s what it signifies, what’s within it. So I open it, with the “help” of E.

And inside, are a gorgeous pair of diamond earrings. E is trying to help me wrestle them out of the box, when Lovely Bloke starts to flap a bit.
“Errrr, E shall we let Mummy do that?” So that’s when I realised they were a) real and b) would need to be insured on their own!!

Within an hour the boys had gone to Nanny and Grandad for bacon and eggs for breakfast, to be followed with a day at the sea side and Prezzo’s for lunch, as that’s Nanna’s favourite place to go for a meal out…

We are then on the road, planning to go IKEA, to sort out the kitchen and what we are going to do with it. En route, I do some more calculations and we realise that for an extra bit of money we could have the Howdens kitchen that’s on special offer, including the fitted kit, so we detour off to the outlet shopping place near Braintree. I think it’s called Littleport, but am not sure…

Here’s a photo of me having put make up on in the car, trying to look all “sultry”…

Liz Weston is the Cambridge Mummy - a self employed Marketing Social Media and Public Relations bird :))

Me, trying to do a friendly, but not gurning face

And this is what I really look like:

Liz Weston is the Cambridge Mummy and this is what she really looks like

This is what I really look like...

So then we get to Littleport or Freeport or Whatever It Is Called and we wander around the shops. Have to say, I’m not overly thrilled with it. But I did find a Wonder Bra outlet shop where in hindsight, I should have had the bra that was 15.00 instead of 25.00 but hey ho, I’ve lived and learnt from that one. And I found some of my jeans, not quite in the right colour in the Levi’s shop. They were 55 instead of 85, which is quite good but if they aren’t “my colour” isn’t that a bit of a false economy?

What I did find however, was something which my dear friend, Dr AKT told me I would find. Skinny jeggings. In stonewash denim. And behold. I did. She mentioned it several times, so I can only assume that she was secretly requesting a pair for her birthday. Who am I to not oblige the desires of one of my two best friends? [For the file, my other best friend, KR, would shoot me if I got her a pair of these, so it's good to note how we all have different kinds of friends who make our worlds go around...]

Liz Weston aka Cambridge Mummy has bought these for AKT's birthday

This is AKT's birthday present. Don't tell her though. It's a secret

 

And then it was on to Howdens, where we spent so much money that I had to phone the bank to tell them that a transaction of magnitude was going through! After a quick whip home for our swimmers, we visited a worktop place that does recycled glass. It’s gorgeous. And costs £3,000 for the worktop alone, not the MDF that goes under it!!! Here’s a photo for you. Does it look like a £3,000 worktop to you?

Liz Weston is the Cambridge Mummy. By day she is a Baby PR, Marketing and Social Media bird

Can I justify this worktop? Please????

We didn’t get the price that day, so we skipped off to the Hotel Pool for a swim and sauna, thinking we should be able to afford it as it couldn’t be “that much” really, could it? After that it was Browns for dinner and here’s Lovely Bloke and I eating our puddings….

Liz Weston is Cambridge Mummy. She didn't really need that pudding but had it anyway

This is the face of someone eating chocolate cookie cheesecake even though they are too full to really squeeze it in...

Lovely Bloke with a mouth full of his banoffee pie

Lovely Bloke with hamster cheeks from shovelling his pudding in

After that, we went to the cinema to see the inbetweeners movie. It was very busy and full of teenagers. We felt a bit old. But enjoyed it nonetheless. Then it was home, to bed and then a lie in together the next morning, before a couple of clients phoned me – and I told them I was “off” and managed to not work until my first client meeting at 1pm!

So all in all a good result all round really. Sorry this has been soooooo long, but I wanted do my couple time justice. It’s important to me that we got back to being a couple, even if only for 24 hours, only needing to check on what one other person wanted to do, not three and not having to reason in quite the same way with Lovely Bloke that I do with our tiddlers ;)

Will I do it again? Yes, without LittlePort, FreePort, whatever it is. And without the diamond earrings and the £3,000 worktop (did I mention the worktop???) Lovely Bloke, mooching about, swimming, dinner and movie is my idea of a good time. And I’m pleased to have worked that out. It’s a good feeling.

Now I’ve got to put my cape on and transform into Liz Weston, Baby PR, Marketing to Families and Social Media solutions provider for my day job. So I’ll see you later x